Dear Haters

12 August 2013


You know what, one of the best thing about blogging is that interacting with your readers. My heart skips a beat every time when I see a new comment on my blog post! I really enjoy hearing what people say/think about what I blog. Seriously, it's kinda rewarding to me! *laughing* 

But i've been receiving some comments from an ANONYMOUS lately. He/She is always the first few  to comment in my blog. Here's some screenshot of the comments. It's just a part of it..

Of course, you can have your own opinion. Everyone do have different perceptive right? Yes i know, not everyone will agree with every single thing i blogged about.  But it's not nice to criticize someone's else interest. You are welcome to give me your opinion, but tell me in a good way, i will accept everyone's comment. You can tell me your opinion anytime, so that i can improve myself.. right? What can i do if you just judge me, criticize me for no reason? LOLLLL 

Hmmmm, I'm just wondering... What's wrong with fitness posts? This is my blog right? LOL! Why can't i blog  "whatever" i wanted to blog? Don't you think it sounds a lil ridiculous? I mean... if you really had a problem with my fitness blog post /or you dislike ME personally...why are you still reading my blog and leaving comment in almost all of my blog post? 

Come on, tell me what you want... *i'm curious to know*

Haters gonna hate...It was expected, but it still wasn't a pleasant experience...because i've put in so much efforts on my own blog, trying to inspire/motivate people and promote about healthier lifestyle...It's okay if you don't appreciate it..but at least don't criticize me. 

Well, Getting negative comments actually taught me some really valuable lessons about blogging, staying true to who I am and representing myself in a positive manner even in the face of criticism. No one can influence me/bring me down/stop me from doing what I'm passionate to do. So yea, i will just stay positive no matter what i face. \(^o^)/


Whatever you do in life, haters are always gonna hate.  HATERS  are usually someone who leads a very miserable and sad life, dedicating their days to putting others down and obsessing over the details of their lives, to try and make themselves feel better about their own problems and insecurities.  A hater/bully...whatever you want to call it, is normally someone who has been hated on or bullied or put down themselves.  If you are being bullied or if someone in your life is trying to hurt you with cruel words or nasty comments about your appearance/personality/life choices, the best thing to do is to completely ignore it and instead focus on YOU. Because if you can be the best, "most confident you"...then nothing or no-one else will bring you down.  Being confident with yourself means not worrying about what anybody else thinks.  Being confident also means not being afraid to do what you think it right FOR YOU.  I'm not talking about being selfish. I'm talking about loving yourself and being your own best friend.  If your best friend was being bullied, what would you tell her?  Ignore them. And that's what you should tell yourself ;)

If you are experiencing negative people in your life, just laugh it off, ignore it. Be Good
To the anonymous out there : i would like to say...thank you, for caring so much about me


Once again, Thanks for reading ( ´ ▽ ` )οΎ‰


20 comments:

  1. You don't really have to care about the hate comments. It's your blog anyway so you have every right to post anything and everything you want. And since the Mr/Miss Anonymous simply has no balls for only know how to speak his/her opinion without revealing his/her true identity. Just dgaf and be-you-tiful :)

    Celyx Lim
    www.celyx.blogspot.com

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    1. Yes, i don't really care about their negative comments. I'm happy with what i am doing :)

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  2. They are just jealous. Even celebrities has to deal with negative comments of themselves, but they are just who they are. I had to face such comments over my nickname once.

    Haters are people trapped in negativity that they fail to realize their potential. But it's up to them to walk out.

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    1. Yes, exactly. Hopefully they can do something better, stop wasting time leaving negative comment in someone's else blog. It's pretty ridiculous and i feel sad for him/her too. LOL!

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  3. Well . They just want to get your attention ! Just leave them ! I do love your fitness post . I always wait for your latest fitness post so that I can learn from it FOC xD LOL ! Kidding ! To be honest , you're one of my motivation cause I can see the difference :D Keep it up . I'm your supporter ! Chill pretty !

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    1. Thanks for supporting babe!
      hehe, i will try to blog more once i'm free. Always wanted to blog more about some useful fitness info, but don't really have time for it sometimes :X Will try to make time for it.

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  4. Namo Amitabha, hi Karen, today I will translate four excerpts of Shakyamuni Buddha's teachings about Husband and Wife section. The names of the excerpts are 'Five things husband and wife respect each other', 'Natural association of husband and wife', 'Five kinds of wives' and 'Female person beautifies herself with her virtuous mind.' Sincerely, buddhist Tam Tinh.

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  5. There's nothing wrong in posting what you like. Don't have to bother with those haters. In fact, I started visiting your blog recently because the pictures that you posted on IG inspired & motivated me.. I am having a wedding in 2 months time, & I just can't lose the fats.. Your fitness posts motivated me & kept me from binge eating.. =]

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    1. Yes, it's my life, i got the right to do what i want.
      Oh really? Congratz! You can start working for it now, 2 months is more than enough :)

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  6. Hi,pretty u'r my motivation n idol to keep me up for my fitness progress.Please have more fitness post. I'm envy with your workout mind ^^ Just ignore the haters they just jealous you.

    I will always support u.Jia You!!

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    1. Awwww, thank you!
      Don't have to envy, you can achieve it too if you want!

      Hahaha, ok i always ignore!

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  7. Everday I will open ur blog just want to see any update for any new fitness post. I love ur post n u r my motivation. Hater gonna hate. Just be who u r :)

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    1. Thank you, i won't change myself because of "some" of the people's pointless opinion.
      I will still doing what i passionate about and be the best i can be. FOR MYSELF :)

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  8. Brush it off your shoulder

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  9. I think he/she just want to see posts of you and what youre doing, if you get what I mean heh. #stalkeralert!


    www.stephanielim.net

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  10. haha is okay haters gonna hate. so just ignore. they help to increase ur views anyway. haha

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    1. Yes, i won't care about lifeless people like this, haha

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  11. i started to read your blog because of your fitness entries. go on, it is very inspiring and motivating.

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